When I was in a different place versus where I am today, when I stopped texting or calling men, they stopped reaching out to me. What I figured out was, if they were interested in me, they would continue to pursue me, no matter how difficult the task, or how long it took.
As a single, saved, celibate woman, that has not changed... my question for you is, what are you pursuing?
Are you chasing the idea of a spouse or chasing the One who has the spouse prepared for you? Are you pursuing the dollar or pursing the One that is your provider? Are you pursuing the career or pursing the One that is ordering your steps?
I did not like the way I was feeling when I noticed the people I was pursuing did not seem concerned by my lack of interest. I can only imagine how Jesus feels when we are not pursing Him, although He is right there waiting... patiently.... waiting....
The Word clearly tells us to first seek the kingdom of God, then these other things will be added to you.
Who are you pursuing???
Prayer gives you power to walk on purpose